Well, I guess you could say it's all official now. We're both college students! Matty is a little more "official" than me since he's fully accepted as a full-time student. I'm still on "provisional admission" status, but, we're both "in" as far as we're both concerned. What a dream come true.
The class I'm taking is an intro to Sociology, and I said a while back that it was probably something I wouldn't have necessarily picked if I had a choice. The Admissions Office said it's one of the few classes that had openings on the Freshmen level and the prof approved me, so here I am. The first class yesterday was not what I expected it to be. Lots of announcements, going over the schedule, the syllabus and all the reading we're required to do. But, he did give a short mini-lecture on what the course would be about. It actually sounded more interesting than I originally thought. Since it's the only course I'll be taking, I'm actually looking forward to it. At least it'll give me a taste of what a college-level class is all about and how it works. And, I might end up really getting into the subject.
So, Matty said yesterday that since my class didn't start until 4:00 (the same time his next class started), he had a break a little after 2:00. So, as Summer commented in yesterday's post, we had out first official "Campus Date" from 2:30 to a little before 4:00.
We had agreed to meet at a certain location and when we both saw each other, I'm not being dramatic when I say we both popped a HUGE smile on our faces as we were walking toward each other. I swear I wanted to run in his arms and starting kissing him all over. But, we didn't see much of that going on and we're able to restrain ourselves LOL.
After hugging, we went to one of the campus snack bars, or more like a little cafe. It was so much fun to sit across from him and just take the whole thing in. Matty kept saying, "Can you believe we're actually here?"
After we had a coffee and a snack, we went for a walk. We didn't want to get lost, so we just walked in the general area we were in. I gotta tell you that campus is like a little city. It's going to take a while to get totally familiar with the place, but it really was like stepping into another world. The rain had stopped for the day so we just walked around and found some benches to sit down. It's like we were in some kind of daze or something.
Matty was so excited to tell me about his classes and then he went into seeing how I was feeling about going to my class. It felt so good that he had been through "first classes" all this week and knew what he was talking about. It really helped calm my nerves. And it felt so special that he was taking care of me.
Well, when we finished classes we decided to head over to his house for a while. I figured if we went to his house, I'd be able to leave after a while and he'd be there to do any readings he had to do. Plus he has one class this morning, so he needed his beauty sleep. I didn't want to stay the night since I knew there'd be no studying going on. I mean, we have to balance our sexual needs with our responsibilities as scholars, right? LOL. But you can be sure there's going to be some "make up" time this weekend. Don't you doubt that for a minute! We're going to have a lot of making up to do! What's that expression, "All work and no play makes (...something, something ?) a dull boy."
So, he has one class today and then he's going to go check out some of the libraries. This campus city has what looks like one main library and then there's some smaller ones scattered over campus. Then tonight we're definitely going out to eat and I'm picking out a movie to watch afterwards and we're gonna be all snugly. I'm going to spend the night and at least get some kind of start of all that "make up" work we have to do!
So, you may remember the other big thing happening is that we have T-minus three weeks to get ready to move in together! Since I have tons more time than Matty, I'm going to be in charge of organizing all that. I think I've got all the utilities set up, but we have to get some packing done and make arrangements to get help moving all our stuff. Well, what you would call our "worldly possessions" is everything that fits in both our bedrooms! Both our parents have offered to contribute various pieces of furniture until we can decide what we want to get on our own.
One piece of furniture we're going to buy together is the bed! A brand new bed. We're still trying to decide whether to get a king or queen size. The Master Bedroom (mmmmm, I like the sound of that, hehe!) is big enough for a king size, and we're both leaning toward that. Then we're going shopping for the sheets, blankets, pillows, spread, the whole nine yards! One thing I've insisted on is the bedroom (the Master bedroom) will have only furniture we're bought. The rest of the house can just be satisfied with temporary loaned or donated things. But the bedroom?...... It's gonna be exactly what we want, ready and waiting for us! God, this is so much fun!
So, we both want to thank all of you for giving us all your support and encouragement. It's really meant more than you can know. We love you guys so much!
Hit Garage/yard sales.
ReplyDeleteFYI - When my husband and I purchased our first real bedroom suite a few years ago, when we first moved into our new house (out of an apartment finally), it cost around $3-4000 dollars between the bed frame, night stands, dresser, chest of drawers, and mirror (attached behind the dresser). Just to give you an idea.
We went with queen size. I never thought it was too small until we had the baby (as in 2 months old) sleep in the bed with us. I'm vaguely wishing we'd bought king-size now for the width, but it isn't really necessary. (I'm the taller of the two of us at 5'9", btw. Queen works fine for us. At 6'2", my father always needed/wanted a King to not hang off the end of the bed.)
Oh Brad, talk about POP a smile, I did when I read this! I'm so happy for the two of you, you compliment each other.
ReplyDeleteAs for the bed, go for the king size, you won't regret it and you have a lot more room to play. It might not seem that there's much difference in the size, but those extra inches can make a BIG difference, no pun intended with tha.
Love you guys!!
You two make me so happy! I have to smile every time I read about you two cuties. You are just perfect together :)
ReplyDeleteSo will you be able to meet every week for your Campus Date? :)
Oooh, the MASTER bedroom definitely needs your own furniture! What fun would it otherwise be? I bet the shopping will be absolutely fantastic and you two will have lots of fun!
Love you guys too!
Go with the king, I want one myself, I've got the queen now and want to updrade. Sounds like you have a great weekend planned. Ivan
ReplyDeleteI just smiled when I read your blog today! I'm so excited for you both.
ReplyDeleteShopping together for your "Master" bedroom, no matter where you shop; garage sales or stores, is going to be so much fun!
King...Queen...King...Queen...hmmmm. I have a queen, I'd like a King. LOL But I hate the price of those 600 count sheets. But ya gotta buy good sheets cause they last forever...
You guys are gonna be great!
I'll be thinking of you both as I paddle my way down the Allegheny this weekend.
Have a great weekend! Huge squishy {{hugs}} sent your way.
Aw, like Mary, your post made me smile too! It's so great that you were able to get into that class Brad, and that now you two get to experience college together.
ReplyDeleteMoving, specifically buying furniture, etc.can be expensive. When I moved, though, the bed was the one place I didn't scrimp, I wanted my bed as super comfy and luxurious as I could afford. Remember you'll be spending a lot of time there. *wink. wink* :)
How exciting, I'm so very happy for you guys,picking out all new stuff for your life together. Just WOW. Bed size doesn't really matter you'll be right next to each other any way, but king size sheets are more expensive and it's only 6 inches wider. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteAll I have to say is wow. Bed go with what you think works for you. (I want a king sized bed for later on) but pick what you two will be comfortable with and just make sure you all break in the bed afterwards (Sleep and a little bit of loving breaks in a bed nicely) Had to
ReplyDeleteLove, Laughs, & Peace,
Kat
Congrats guys!! So many changes and new adventures to endure. You guys make me want to go back to school.
ReplyDelete**So, we both want to thank all of you for giving us all your support and encouragement. It's really meant more than you can know. We love you guys so much!**
You have no idea how much joy and excitement you give to us. Thank you!
I mentally danced around in happiness for the both of you. I'm so glad that things are starting to smooth out and you guys are getting back in the flow of everything.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure if you guys have a Big Lots where you are (is that only a Florida thing?) but I got my entire bedroom set there (headboard, footboard, box spring, mattress, bed sheets, comforter, dressers, nightstands, desk, high boy, tv, bookshelf) and only spent $1500 for all of it, all really good quality. You'd be amazed at how much you can save at those stores that you usually pass by.
I suggest a king size, lots more room to...play and complete your "make up work." *Wink, naughty grin* I'm so excited for the both of you!
{HUGZ AND SQUEEZES}
Big Sis Vee (I almost put B.S. Vee-not good at all)
So happy for you both! Glad to hear things are working out for you guys. *Big hugs*
ReplyDeleteYour post makes me want to go out and buy new bedroom stuff too....hmmm, you guys are bad for my wallet but great for my heart.
ReplyDeleteI wish I'd bought my first bed when I moved to my first apartment. Everything I had was left overs from my Aunt, including the bed. It was a spare she had for some reason and never used. It's so fun when you finally can buy your own stuff and things actually match. lol
ReplyDeleteSounds like you both are settling into college. Your description of your meeting for lunch reminded me of one of those slow mo movie moments when the couple runs across an open space from opposite ends and into each others arms.
Whether you go for King or Queen, you'll want decent sheets, so let me warn you: Those cool silicone-based lubes will stain. I've got the nicest, most comfortable set of high thread-count sheets...with a great big handprint that doesn't wash out.
ReplyDeleteThanks, everybody, for being excited for your new scholars here... ;) Kerstin asked if we're going to have our little "campus date" every Thursday. There ain't no way we're both going to be on campus together and not spend some time with each other (oh, wait.... as scholars now, I guess we shouldn't use the word "ain't"!!! lol). Also, thanks for all the practical suggestions about furniture, etc. We decided last night we're going for the king size bed. We're still voting on what to call our bedroom. Right now it's a tie: "Master Bedroom" has one vote (Brad), and "Sex Chamber" has one vote (guess who?). ..... In spite of all the stress, this really is a lot of fun! It's also fun to have all of you share our excitement. But no sharing our bed in the "Master Bedroom/Sex Chamber." There's always the guest bedroom you guy's can use!... lol.
ReplyDeleteSo happy for you guys, it's a very exciting time in your lives, enjoy it!
ReplyDeleteKing, king, king! *\o/* Happy dance :)
ReplyDelete"when we both saw each other, I'm not being dramatic when I say we both popped a HUGE smile on our faces as we were walking toward each other." Awww...... Matt + Brad = love. :)
ReplyDeleteOh, and yeah, get a king. just saying.
we lov yu guys 4 real.stay safe
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